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You’ll never have to wonder what our feelings are for you, because—if we haven’t already blurted it out—you’ll be able to tell from just one look at us. Because anxiety quite often leads to thinking about negative consequences, we can stay motivated to do something, just because we want to avoid that outcome.

If I don’t go to the gym, I’ll gain weight and then my significant other won’t like me *only if they’re a super shallow ass-hat, though* then they’ll leave and I’ll be alone, and then I’ll gain more weight from eating buckets of ice cream to cope with my loneliness, and then I’ll stay alone forever, because no one will like me, and I’ll be forced to end up as one of those crazy cat ladies. The mind of someone with anxiety doesn’t see just in the immediate future; we can see so far into the future, that it helps us to stay motivated to accomplish the goals we have right now. Because we will also push you and help you stay motivated to achieve your goals.

When you have anxiety, it’s awfully hard to fret about things like gossip and the latest fashion trends.

Since we visualize our futures so much, we really only pay attention to the most important things in our lives and the things that will affect our future the most.

We’re not the type that will play games and pretend not to be mad at you, even though we are—mostly because we don’t have a choice.

This is why, when I dated, I made as many first dates as possible in the same exact Starbucks.

Anxiety: a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome. Anxiety paves the way to incredible qualities in a person—qualities that you may not get otherwise. And by creative, I don’t mean we can all draw a perfect Mona Lisa replica.

Coming from someone who is diagnosed with anxiety, that definition gives very little insight into exactly what goes on in our heads. I mean, if you want to know just about every scenario—good or bad—that could happen in any situation, we’re the ones who can tell you!

We want your future to be just as successful as we want ours to be.

[Read: How to be successful and take that next step towards success] #6 We are always focused on what is important to us.