The site is free so please be nice to the volunteers that help try to keep the place safe.I hope you enjoy your stay here Because of all the spam we have been getting new members will have to be approved now for a while, If u know someone that is signing up let us know so we can get them done faster ----------------------------------------------------------------------- If the chat room says you are banned its probably because you never activated your acct by clicking on the link in the email you got when you first joined, before it didnt matter but we had to tighten things up because of all the spamming going on.This comment wouldn't bother you or even spew out your mouth or even come as a thought in your head... Everyone's wired differently and marriage is a journey, a struggle and hard work but also a fantastic experience.The key is two people who want to keep trying.• Anonymous said… It's easy for people to say "everyone is wired differently" but let's be honest - that puts the burden on the non-aspie partner to figure out how to deal because the aspie really cannot contribute to resolving the language barrier that happens in this situation.Women who understand what it's like to be married to someone with Aspergers - no one else can even begin to understand the challenge. She is trying to understand and reach out for help. There were some arguments that I now understand were down to mutual misunderstanding from our brains being "wired differently" .
No one with AS wants conflict or strife, as it only serves to worsen the anxiety and depression that is so common in this disorder.I'm asking for help because I can't do everything myself." "You cook, I clean. I'm married to adhd and asperger for 13 years Not easy but very possible! My husband says I am his dream girl and he wouldnt change a thing about me.This is our agreement." "You can't be around chemicals, so you have to sweep, vacuum, and do the laundry." Getting emotional usually frustrates and/or shuts my husband down. Sure we didnt know I had as when we got married or for years but it sure helps to know and learn how to communicate better.* Anonymous said...This is also a chance for us all to get to know each other first! You will also have access to a seperate forum that only...I just wanted everyone to know that the chatroom is not private.What advice would you have for a couple that is experiencing marital problems due to the fact that one partner’s brain is wired differently? "I need you to take out the trash because I'm cooking dinner." "It upsets me when you ignore me for video games because it makes me feel like you'd rather play games than be married to me. There's a quiz you can both take that will tell you your love language, which was crazy eye-opening for me and my husband.• Anonymous said... Read everything about it, have someone to talk to, have your OWN free time and try to be as rational as you can when you talk to him which you have to do when you know he is in the "listening mode". One thing that helps me is to write my thoughts and feelings down, then have him read them.Right when he gets home from work, or just before bed, would not be ideal.• Anonymous said…"am finding myself slipping into feelings of resentment quite often" if you love him..There are ways to read what has been posted there even if you are the only ones in there talking, there are commands to let people see what you have said before they come in.Its a cheap chat room and is not my favorite thing.