Asian girls were raised to be polite, the culture promotes humility and respect which oftentimes gets misinterpreted for submissiveness. I’m also not blind to history and the colonialism that plagued the world.
My grandparents grew up in a country where the French reigned supreme for nearly a century.
In Rock Springs, Wyoming, 150 armed white miners drove Chinese immigrants out of town in 1885 by setting fire to their homes and businesses and murdering 28 people. It was hardly an isolated incident; 153 anti-Chinese riots erupted throughout the American West in the 1870s and 1880s, with some of the worst episodes of violence in Denver, Los Angeles, Seattle and Tacoma, Washington.
This is exactly what drove the Chinese and Asians to form Chinatowns in America.
Look, I’m super aware that there are insecurity gaps that people on all ends of the spectrum have to close; and it sucks that people have to go online to say mean things just to feel better about themselves.
That they have to put others down just to have a momentary false sense of pride in their miserable lives.