Nobody likes a player, especially when you are the one being played.But spotting the telltale signs that he or she is in it for all the wrong reasons can be a lot more difficult online. Internet dating brings thousands of people from different backgrounds together to find singles who match their profile in the area, though of course not everyone is looking for love and marriage. He will not let you slip away, no matter how much you resist. Then, out of nowhere, he puts on the brakes, and you are left scratching your head trying to figure out why, and what you did to cause this unwelcome outcome. The romanticism he exhibits is all about living in the moment, or re-enacting a fantasy, but, rest assured, reality will rear its ugly head sooner rather than later. It is more likely he compartmentalizes because there are other women in his life besides you. If it is monogamy you seek, and the guy you are seeing is not interested in offering that, it is probably smart to re-evaluate and move on. A guy who is serious about you will make you his girlfriend. There have been many women in his past, and he is not shy about informing you of his sexual conquests and why these endless attempts at a relationship failed, no doubt due to every reason apart from him. If the guy you are seeing has been dating for two or three decades and has yet to experience a monogamous relationship that outlasts the change of four consecutive seasons, it is wise to question whether he can or will want to offer you the commitment you desire. No matter how many times either of you call it quits, say your goodbyes, and wish each other well, somehow he always manages to reappear, waving a flag (a red one, if I may) via a text, an email, or an article he innocently forwards along, implying he is around if you want him to be.
But there are some classic signs to help you spot them: 3 Telltale Signs He or She is a Player 1.
Free online dating is a fantastic way to meet local singles and get back on the dating scene, but if you’re logging on to find love then you need to learn how to spot a player online straight away. There’s nothing stopping people joining online dating sites for casual encounters, however if you’re looking to find a partner then these people can leave you hurt and rejected.
Many people associate players with men, however there are a growing number of women who fall into this category, using their internet dating membership to ‘hook up’ online.
Let’s face it, we’ve all lost interest in a date at least once in our lives.
However looking out for these 3 telltale signs will help you avoid the time wasters and find someone who is in it for the right reasons instead.