And how do I figure out if I’m bi or gay, just for my own personal peace? I’m getting a lot of update requests, and Danny just headed home so I figured I’d go ahead and post. First I wanted to say thanks to everybody who commented, you all really helped me calm down and stop overthinking everything. When Danny showed up we were both really nervous and awkward at first.EDIT: He just texted me back and asked if he could come over. I was really scared to say anything, but I broke the tension by telling him how much I had enjoyed the night before.Feeling confused and don’t know where to go from here.Some background for the situation: I’ve known my friend Danny, the friend in question, since we were 14.After all this heavy conversation we decided to play some CS: GO together like we usually do but we ended up in bed together instead. We haven’t told anyone yet, but decided not to go out of our way to keep it a secret.Afterwards we talked some more and discussed the possibility of a relationship. The area we live in is reasonably tolerant and neither of our parents are anti-gay, which I am grateful for.It was like my mind switched gears in the middle of it and all of a sudden I was so turned on by him.